First love. The reason why
we think first love is beautiful isn't because people we first loved
were actually handsome or pretty. It's because we were unconditional,
innocent, or a bit stupid at the time of first love. And because... and
because we know that we can never go back to that young, passionate time
of our days.
First love is a bit rash. Without any calculation, we throw
ourselves with passion and finally come to face failure. But it is at
the same time dramatic. It comes with inexplicable feelings that we
never get to experience again. So, first love becomes the most dramatic
moment of our lives. It's okay to fail. Tragic stories stay longer than
'happily ever after'. It's nice to have that wonderful story as one
chapter of one's life.
A person who dreams of love, is the one who waits. After the
romance, the real life comes in. Innocence gets dirty, passion gets
cold, and youth gets old with cleverness. So, first love becomes part of
one's exhausted daily life. That's why first love looks like it can't
be accomplished. Because no one talks about a successful romance with
first love.